What Are You Doing That You Don’t Want Anyone To Find Out About?

  • When we dads have a secret, we’re playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun.
  • We don’t want people to find out because of the consequences…we’ll lose something, we’ll look bad, it’ll hurt the ones we love, etc.
  • We believe that keeping it a secret is actually the best thing for us and those around us. That’s a lie.
  • Secrets grow stronger and wider and deeper and out of our control as long as we keep them in the dark.
  • When we expose a secret to the light…
    • we invite others to help us.
    • we can actually begin to experience freedom and hope.
    • we discover that it is actually possible to live without the secret.
    • yes…we still have to face the consequences.
  • Invite someone into your life to ask this question: Have you done anything or are you doing anything that you don’t want other people to find out about?

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