Wives, you don’t have it easy in most areas of life. But when it comes to being sexy, you have it easier than husbands. You win!
Why do wives have it easier when it comes to being sexy? Men are physically driven, so… A wife just has to look at her husband. Just walk by her husband. Just wake up in the morning. Just ________ (fill in the blank with just about any word) and you’re sexy to your husband.
It’s much more difficult for a husband to be sexy. Why? Women are emotionally drive, so… A husband has to emotionally connect with his wife for him to be sexy. [insert panicked emoji face here]
How can a husband be a sexy husband:
Touch your wife in non-sexual ways. I’m told there is such a thing. Haha! I’m kidding. Hold her hand. Hug her…keep your hands above the waist. Put your arm around her. Touch her just because you’re glad she’s next to you.
Listen to your wife. Actually listen to each words she says while you’re making eye contact. You can do it!
Play with your kids. Get on the floor or go outside with them.
Help her around the house. Yep, clean or organize something.
Make her life easier in some way. Ask her.
Being a sexy husband takes work. It can feel like…and be…difficult work. But it’s worth it…you know what I mean. And she’s worth it. And the future of your marriage is worth it.