What Your Wife REALLY Wants From You…And It’s Not Your Body

  • Yes, I know you look like a stud…but your wife doesn’t care about that as much as you might think.
  • What does your wife really care about? What does she need from you?
  • She needs you to listen. But not just hear the words that come out of her mouth.
  • She needs you to listen with a focus on her feelings. What is she feeling about what she’s telling you?
  • She does not need you to listen with a focus on problem solving. That’s usually what we’re good at, though.
  • If you can become a husband who listens with a focus on her feelings, she might just think you look a lot better than you actually do. Score!
  • Being a better husband leads you to being a better dad. (Read about that here.)
  • Need a video aid? Here’s one of my favorite dads (Phil Dunphy) to help us all out:

Dads Should Have Sex As Often As Possible

Is It Easy To Be Married To You?

  • Your marriage directly affects your parenting…so do everything you can to have a great marriage.
  • Avoid drama in your life.
  • Prevent conflict as much as you can.
  • Resolve conflict as fast as possible.
  • Don’t keep your thoughts and actions a secret from your spouse.
  • Be kind.
  • Laugh with your spouse.
  • Support your spouse.
  • You’ll find you’re a better parent when you are easy to be married to.